What’s in it for me?
Today’s devotion builds on the thoughts from Sunday’s Sermon – Week 5 of “Compelled – Living the Value of Extreme Generosity” (LISTEN HERE).
What’s in it for me?
Asking this question in regard to generosity really isn’t a good question. At first glance, one may suspect it is being asked for selfish reasons, i.e. “If I give something, what will I get in return?”
Our sinful nature loves to ask this question and monitor our generosity based on what we perceive we receive in return. Sometimes it looks or sounds like the following:
“I really gave a lot of my time to that person to help them move. They didn’t even say ‘Thank you.’ I’m never helping them again!”
“I have been giving special gifts to my church for a couple years. I am just not seeing the changes I want. I’m done giving to my church.”
“I gave that friend of mine a really nice birthday gift. They did nothing for mine. I’m done giving gifts.”
“I let some relatives stay in our house while we were gone and they ate all our food. They better pay us back!”
Generosity is hard if I’m always looking for “what’s in it for me.” In fact, I would surmise generosity is non-existent if we are motivated in any way to receive something back in compensation. Then it’s not generosity, it’s a business transaction.
Generosity builds on the value of unconditional love and visible grace. Unconditional love and visible grace are a reflection of the love and grace that God has shown to us. So when we show love and grace it is a reflection of God who unconditionally loved us and gave us his grace as a gift. So when we exhibit generosity it is NOT motivated by desiring something in return, but by the generosity of the Lord who has given us all we have and need to be generous.
2 Corinthians 9:8 And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work. 9 As it is written:
“He has scattered abroad his gifts to the poor; his righteousness endures forever.”
10 Now he who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness. 11 You will be made rich in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God.
Generosity is allowing the blessings of God to flow through us to others.
Here’s the fun reality. We may never receive any return or thanks from the person to whom we were generous. That’s OK. We are not being generous to GET something from the person. However, when we are generous, the Lord continues to give us “seed to sow” and makes us “rich in every way” and gives us “at all times” “all that we need.” We aren’t generous to GET from God. But when we are generous, he continues to give to us so that we might continue to give to others. We become a conduit of God’s blessings to others.
What’s in it for me?
When we are generous, we get to see first hand the generosity of the Lord at work in our own lives and have fun sharing the generosity of the Lord with others.
That’s what’s in it for you!
Apply: Take inventory of when you are “generous.” Have you expected something in return? Have you stopped being generous because people haven’t responded as you wanted to your generosity? What happens when you let go of expecting something from the people to whom you are showing generosity and simply be a conduit of generosity through whom the Lord works?
Prayer: Lord thank you for giving me all I need so I can be generous on every occasion. AMEN.
Generosity is more than money!
Today’s devotion builds on the thoughts from Sunday’s Sermon – Week 5 of “Compelled – Living the Value of Extreme Generosity” (LISTEN HERE).
What am I supposed to give?
Generosity is more than money.
Generosity is a mindset.
Generosity is a willingness to give what I have for the benefit of another person or especially for the benefit of the kingdom of God.
Generosity is a realization that everything I have, the time I am given, and the abilities and talents I have are gifts from God to be used in service to the Lord and to be blessing to others.
Generosity leads us to use the gifts Spirit of God has given you to serve the Lord and his people.
1 Corinthians 12:4 There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit. 5 There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. 6 There are different kinds of working, but the same God works all of them in all men. 7 Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given for the common good.
What does that look like? Honestly, if you are part of a visible congregation, God has you there to serve in some capacity. Maybe it’s part of a cleaning team or yard crew. Maybe it’s leading or helping in children’s ministry. Maybe it’s calling on shut-ins and the elderly to make sure they are ok. Maybe it’s visiting people who haven’t been in church for awhile. Maybe it’s musical gifts. Maybe it’s technology. Maybe it’s…
I don’t know what it is for you, but generosity motivated by the generosity of Christ moves us to give of our time and abilities to serve the Lord and be a blessing to people. If you are not serving in your church in some way, the body of Christ is hurting because it’s missing your contribution.
Generosity leads us to use our personal possessions or home to offer hospitality or help.
Luke 10:38 As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him.
1 Kings 17 the widow at Zarephath gave of her last bread to Elijah…the Lord provided more “seed to sow” as the oil and flour never ran out!
1 Peter 4:9 9 Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling.
What might this look like? Maybe it’s using your car to drive someone who can’t drive to a doctor appointment. Perhaps it’s opening your home to host a small group or social activity. Perhaps it’s hosting members of a mission team or outreach team. Maybe it’s making a meal for the fire department or bringing food to a church fellowship gathering. Maybe it’s…
When generosity is our heart and mindset we see everything we have as resources God has given to us to be an impact in the kingdom of God.
Yes, generosity drives our financial giving and support to the Lord’s work, but don’t forget that generosity really flows from a life that has been changed by the generosity of the Lord and is ready to be “all in” for the Lord.
Generosity is more than money…it’s a lifestyle.
Apply: Take inventory of all the Lord has given to you – time, talents, treasures. What happens when generosity permeates your heart and generosity moves you to use them to be active in your church/kingdom of God or influence in another person’s life?
Prayer: Lord thank you for your generosity with which you have blessed me with all things eternal, temporal, and personal. Continue to work in my heart a spirit of generosity that leads me to use all I have to your glory and the blessing of others. AMEN.
Are you good at giving?
Today’s devotion builds on the thoughts from Sunday’s Sermon – Week 5 of “Compelled – Living the Value of Extreme Generosity” (LISTEN HERE).
Are you good at giving?
Yes…and no.
Somedays…yes. Somedays…no.
Somedays I feel I have enough to give. Somedays I feel frustrated that I feel obligated to give.
How about you?
Giving can be challenging.
In fact, there are probably other areas of the Christian life at which you are doing better. Maybe it is prayer – you are a regular prayer. Maybe it is attending worship … you are in church every weekend. Maybe it is in giving godly advice…you are sought after by your friends. Maybe it is in showing love to others…you are full of encouragement.
Yet in the spectrum of the Christian life, the Apostle Paul under inspiration of God wants to see us “excel in this grace of giving”!
2 Corinthians 8:7 But since you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in the love we have kindled in you—see that you also excel in this grace of giving.
I love this phrase, “Grace of giving” because it is far more encouraging and inspiring than “obligation of giving” or the “have to be giving” phrases that we sometimes hear and honestly feel in our hearts. Giving can be a groaner of a topic. We can feel “imposed on” by the church to “have to” give.
But when we hear the encouragement to EXCEL in the GRACE of GIVING, does that not perk our ears to understand how is giving grace and how can I excel in it?
This little phrase puts giving in the context of grace. We just spent a week of devotions looking at another of our values, “Visible Grace.” Grace is the ultimate gift of restoration, forgiveness and love which God gives to us without us demanding it, earning it, or performing for it. Grace BY DEFINITION is a gift. Grace is the epitome of God’s heart of giving.
Giving starts and ends with the generosity of God. We cannot practice extreme generosity or excel in the grace of giving without basking in the amazing, giving nature of God.
God excelled in the grace of giving:
John 3:16 “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
The heart of God was to give his Son for us! The reality of our eternal salvation rests in the extreme generosity of our heavenly Father to give his Son to us. The certainty of our restored relationship with God rests in the heart of Jesus who was willing to GIVE his life as a ransom for all.
Grace GAVE us the gift of salvation.
Grace GIVES us all we need in life. Grace is a perspective that God is the giver of every good and perfect gift. As a recipient of grace, I realize that I have received the gifts of God so that I will excel in the grace of giving.
2 Corinthians 9:8 And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.
Grace enables us to abound in every good work. Grace is the compelling factor to excel in the grace of giving!
Apply: Make a list today with the heading, “God’s gifts to me.” How many can you list? These are all a gift of God’s goodness and grace.
Prayer: Lord, as you excelled in the grace of giving to me, empower me to excel in the grace of giving. AMEN.
What’s the difference?
Today’s devotion builds on the thoughts from Sunday’s Sermon – Week 4 of “Compelled – Living the Value of Outreach Focus” (LISTEN HERE).
What difference does Jesus make…to you?
Acts 1:8 But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”
I like Matthew 28:19-20 as the great commission. However, “making disciples” can be a daunting task and one that is hard to always define what that looks like. But I understand what a “witness” is. And, honestly, it’s pretty easy.
A witness simply tells about what they have seen or experienced. Nothing more. Nothing less.
A witness in a trial can’t testify to what someone else saw or experienced. Just what they saw and experienced.
But here’s the challenge. Have you stopped to think what you have seen and experienced with Jesus? What difference has Jesus had in your life? What has believing in Jesus and walking in his ways done for you?
God is working in your life so you have a story to tell others…HIS story as it has intersected with and affected your story.
So let me give you a few examples along the line of yesterday’s devotion of bringing God’s peace to a country and culture overcome by fear.
To someone worked up about the government and worried about one political party or another, I might share when given the opportunity, “I have my views (and may share some of them and why I hold them), but what allows me to sleep at night is that I know God is still in charge and in some way, even if I don’t always understand, allowing a blessing to come to his Church and his people. I know enough about history that nations rise and fall, but the Lord outlasts and supersedes all of them.
Ephesians 1:1 That power is the same as the mighty strength 20 he exerted when he raised Christ from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms, 21 far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every name that is invoked, not only in the present age but also in the one to come. 22 And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, 23 which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.
To someone fearful of wars and rumors of war, I might share when given the opportunity, “I understand and share the same concern. I pray for our leaders making decisions and our military personnel to be kept safe and successful in their missions. However, I also find a lot of comfort knowing that with Jesus, I am safe forever. What gives me peace is ultimately the power of the Lord is greater than a power of a military.”
Psalm 46:8-11 Come and see what the Lord has done,
the desolations he has brought on the earth.
9 He makes wars cease to the ends of the earth.
He breaks the bow and shatters the spear;
he burns the shields with fire.
10 He says, “Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.”
11 The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.
To one facing the end of their life and sharing fears and regrets, when given an opportunity, I may say, “I know it’s kind of scary to face the end of life and I will probably have a bit of anxiety too. What gives me comfort is knowing my faith is in one who came alive after being dead and many people saw him alive.”
John 14:19 Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live.
These are just three examples, perhaps over simplified. The point is to think through the impact Jesus has in your heart and life. What promises do you hang on to? What realities have you experienced? When you take time to care, to listen and engage another person, eventually you earn the right to be heard. And when given that opportunity, take the opportunity to be a witness!
Apply: Take time to write your story. What difference has God made in your life? What impact has being a Christian been? What realities of God have you lived and experienced? What truths of Scriptures or promises of the Lord are real, near and dear to your heart? What would it be like if you weren’t a Christian? Thinking through what “you have seen and heard” will be given an opportunity to be shared…just wait!
Prayer: Lord, thank you for personally affecting my life and my heart. Give me hands to care for others, ears to listen to others, and a mouth to share with others the wonders of your love and grace. AMEN.
What does the world need?
Today’s devotion builds on the thoughts from Sunday’s Sermon – Week 4 of “Compelled – Living the Value of Outreach Focus” (LISTEN HERE).
The world needs Jesus.
There are some who would disagree, but I believe it is safe to say that any Christian in whom the Spirit of God is at work believes the world needs Jesus.
The challenge is this: “What aspect of Jesus does the world need?”
This morning I had a small repair on my van. I have a shop full of tools. I needed a tool to fix the problem. The question is, “What tool?” When I narrowed it down to a 12mm deep socket with a flexible head ratchet wrench, I was able to tighten the nut that needed tightening. (That probably didn’t make sense to some of you! J) The point is while there are many tools. To make an impact you need the right one.
Have we been using the wrong tool recently to do outreach? Or have I have tried to use the same tool on every individual? (Sometimes banging a hammer fixes a problem, but a hammer will not fix every problem your car has!)
Jayson Gorges in his book, 3D Gospel, begins to bring to light that the Gospel message needs to be shared differently depending on the cultural paradigms of the people. In this book, Jayson identifies three basic cultural responses to sin: guilt, shame, and fear
These three moral emotions have become the foundation for three types of culture.
- Guilt-innocence cultures are individualistic societies (mostly Western), where people who break the laws are guilty and seek justice or forgiveness to rectify a wrong.
- Shame-honor cultures describe collectivistic cultures (common in the East), where people are shamed for not fulfilling group expectations and seek to restore their honor before the community.
- Fear-power cultures refer to animistic contexts (typically tribal), where people afraid of evil and harm pursue power over the spirit world through magical rituals.
(https://honorshame.com/understanding-guilt-shame-fear-cultures/)
There is much that can be discussed on this topic, but my point is to have an outreach focus is also to become adept at understanding the starting point and sharing the Gospel precisely to the issue that is at hand.
For years many of our approaches have addressed our culture as “guilt/innocence” culture. This assumes a basis of right and wrong and when I do wrong I feel guilt. So we bring up truths that “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” We assure the individual that their guilt is covered and sin is paid for by the “innocent suffering and death of Jesus.” The Gospel restores innocence to a guilty conscience. Nothing wrong with this!
But as a culture, I don’t sense we are as worried about right from wrong. Guilt is around, but I observe it is not a driving motivator. Rather what seems to be driving our culture is the desire for personal freedom and ability to do what I want. Moral standards are seen as restrictive to one’s free expression of life unless they align with your viewpoint on life. So what type of culture are we? I am not a social anthropologist, but here’s my hypothesis: We are moving to a “Fear/power” culture, however the response is not power over the spirit world through magic rituals, the fear is that someone is going to harm me and I need a power over that person to prevent them from harming me. The usual object of that power – government.
I believe and observe there is a lot of fear in our culture. Read the headlines. Fear of covid. Fear of rioting. Fear of IRS. Fear of liberals. Fear of conservatives. Fear of food shortages. Fear of global warming. Fear of school shootings. Fear of guns. Fear of drugs. Fear of illegal immigration. Fear of disease. Fear of racism. Fear of … The list goes on. (What would you add?)
So what aspect of Jesus does our world need more right now? I believe our world needs peace from the Prince of Peace.
John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
Apply: Give this some thought today. Notice the people and culture around you. Are they struggling with guilt? Shame? Or fear? Tomorrow we’ll explore what impact the peace only Jesus can give does to drive out fear in the hearts of people.
Prayer: (Of St. Francis of Assisi)
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek
to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
to be loved as to love.
For it is in giving that we receive;
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned;
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen.